Committed but Stuck?

When you show up open, willing, and ready to learn and grow, you can expect significant lifelong changes affecting not only your marriage but every part of your life, from parenting to your career. Wayne Dyer’s words will ring true for you: “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”

Like night and day, that’s how. I’ve spent tens of thousands of dollars in my past on couples’ therapy. Here we don’t hammer on problems and issues. We “feed the turf, not the weeds.” I have witnessed miracle after miracle from feeding and expanding what connects while starving what divides. As simple as it sounds, it works! And we have fun doing it!

The deceptive part of any marriage or relationship is how time slips away as you settle into “default mode,” settling for what you have rather than pressing for what you want. I will assure you, what you’ll learn from the MarriageBOOST will positively influence every part of your life. Deeper friendships, happier parenting, and a more fulfilling primary relationship. HOWEVER, sign up only if you are willing to show up and grow.

I’m an average guy with an above-average hunger for better. I went to SFA University in Texas, I’ve owned and managed my own businesses almost my entire adult life. I have failed at past relationships and have suffered a business crash. They have been my teachers. My formal education is not in human behavior, but I honestly consider that a benefit. My non-schooling has helped me think outside the box and in doing so create constructive tools and techniques to help countless people find their joy and purpose.

I fully understand. The prospect of sharing on a Zoom call can sound disconcerting. In two second flat your concerns will begin to dissipate.  I’m a down-home guy with compassion and a gift for making folks feel at home. You’ll learn quickly how much I care.

No deep dives here! Quite the opposite. We’ve discovered how problems typically dissipate by NOT hammering on them. We’ll get busy feeding and growing what works and what connects. My process is quite enjoyable. Heck, we’ll be like old friends when we’re done. I might even be on your Christmas list!

I’m the first to admit that I used to blame my partner for most of the problems or issues in the relationship. I eventually learned how blame only exacerbates the issue while keeping the relationship stuck. You will each learn to remove blame from the equation and experience the power of owning what’s yours. In doing so you’ll set the stage for forgiveness, reconciliation, growth, and revival.

To be clear, this is not therapy.  You’ll find my style to be easy and delightful. Like fuzzy slippers. While therapy “hammers” problems and issues. my style focuses on what Connects rather than what Divides. You’ll watch “issues” evaporate with this approach.

Before we start the first session we will agree on what times best fit everyone involved, whether it be morning, noon, or night. Gosh, that was an easy question! Throw me a hard ball next time!

We do what fits your circumstance best. We find there are times when meeting as a couple is best, and times when meeting individually is best. This program is designed to custom fit your relationship.

It’s a piece ‘o cake! Easy breezy. We meet via Zoom. From your end you can access the Zoom session from your phone, laptop, pad, or computer. You’ll need to have a free Zoom account downloaded to your device. Ask Rob for further instructions if needed.

The 9-wk MarriageBOOST is designed to meet via Zoom once per week. Also Rob will send you inspiring reminder texts between sessions, and you will have access to text or email Rob between sessions.