Let's Give Your Marriage a BOOST!


Rob's Nine Steps to Reinvigorate!

An incredible journey of fun, discovery, and renewal.

IMAGINE A HOME with a spirit of joy, light, and grace.

IMAGINE A HOME void of conflict and irritation.

Are you a Fit?

✓ Happily Married, could use a boost?

✓ Want to bring back the romance?

✓ Married, needing a fix?

✓ Dating?

✓ Engaged?

✓ In a Relationship Rut?

Communicate Freely
and Openly

This is the backbone of your relationship. Practicing new skills & using new tools will bring back peace and respect in your home.

Know Your Partner

Loving your partner is one thing. HOWEVER, understanding how they feel loved takes your relationship to a new level of joy and satisfaction!

Create a Safe Place

You'll experience the freedom to express and excel when your partner creates for you a safe place.

Turn Reacting into Responding

Learning this sercet will protect you from the biggest killer of marriages.

Secrets 'n Techniques

Rob helps you master unique skills and methods that will bring harmony and unity to your home of peace, respect, and edification.

The Problem is Not the Problem

Discover the remarkable irony of solving problems by not trying to solve the problems.

Now is the Time

For new beginnings!

Several decades as a life coach helping restore, refresh, and enhance relationships.
Three-time published author, dozens of TV, stage, & radio appearances, hundreds of articles written on the subject.
Founder of FLIP-ology, a fresh new approach to life and love.
Helped countless couples re-find their Zing.
Above all, a passion for serving to help others realize their God-given purpose and potential.

Rob Cross

I’m THRILLED you’re here. My name is Rob. I teach couples to communicate well. In doing so, everything falls in place.

I’m a dad, grandpa (Baba), and a lucky hubby to the love of my life Franca. I have successfully failed my way to this place where I’m doing exactly what I’m called to do on this God-made earth: Serve others.

Some of you are living in pain. I’ve been there. Some of your are living in mediocre-ville. I’ve been there as well. I can’t wait to walk you through the life-changing ah-ha’s and flips that have brought me to this place today. There’s hope, my friend. There’s MUCH more to life and love than what you might know. I don’t want you “settling for” any longer.

In helping you recognize that missing lego in your marriage, my approach is unique and quite upside-down from conventional approaches. I invite you to FLIP IT! Much of this course is based on my blockbuster book “Flip Your Thinking.”

Be heard by listening more, engage by reacting less, and enjoy the peace that comes from less resisting. We will turn down the volume on divisiveness and up on connection and vitality in your home.

I’m clear on this: Your solutions are simpler than you think they are, and they’re almost always found where you’re not looking.

Franca and I are delighted you’re here. Relax while you create the marriage you know you’re intended to enjoy.

My gift to you...

Download My Free Micro Book!

This BOOK is packed with gems you can start using today. I want the best for you.

Step by step

How the 9-wk MarriageBOOST works?

I have designed simple yet powerful steps to get you immediate results


We'll meet via Zoom Call, I'll create an easy going, casual environment. I insist on us have fun. It will be like having ice tea on the back porch with an old friend. 🙂


I have the questions, you have the answers. Each of the nine weeks is centered around a critical aspect of any relationship. You'll learn priceless, practical tools to start using NOW.


This is by far my favorite par, watching couples transform and begin responding and connecting as we focus on what connects rather than trying to solve problems.

It's Never Too Late To Feel Loved!

Whether you're young and engaged or in a 50-year marriage, let's get you the thriving love you desire. LET'S BUILD YOU A STRONG FOUNDATION.

You'll master fresh, practical techniques to communicate with grace and respect. You'll begin feeling loved like never before. And when you feel loved you can conquer the world!

What About This Rob Guy?

Steve R
Steve R
✓ verified
Read More
Rob's insights are remarkable. He always points us in a direction that no one else seems to see. I think that's his gift, being able to see what others don't. He's a different breed for sure.
Charlotte T
Charlotte T
✓ verified
Read More
We've been enjoying Rob's easy-going style. It's so much more pleasant to have fun while you learn and grow.
Todd G
Todd G
✓ verified
Read More
I wasted a ton of money in my past with the therapy route. Rob takes his own path and gets it done.He doesn't waste our time. He definitely sees things from a unique perspective and I like it.
Jennifer G
✓ verified
Read More
My husband and I are grateful for Rob. What sets him apart for us is that he truly cares. That's so hard to find these days. He feels like family
✓ verified
Read More
Dad feeds me. On time. And he pets me. He's a keeper.
Connie C
✓ verified
Read More
I've worked with Rob for decades now. He's always been my go-to guy. He seems to always know what I need to hear and what direction I need to go. Best of all he has this loving way of keeping me honest with myself.


When you show up open, willing, and ready to learn and grow, you can expect significant lifelong changes affecting not only your marriage but every part of your life, from parenting to your career. Wayne Dyer’s words will ring true for you: “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”

Like night and day, that’s how. I’ve spent tens of thousands of dollars in my past on couples’ therapy. Here we don’t hammer on problems and issues. We “feed the turf, not the weeds.” I have witnessed miracle after miracle from feeding and expanding what connects while starving what divides. As simple as it sounds, it works! And we have fun doing it!

The deceptive part of any marriage or relationship is how time slips away as you settle into “default mode,” settling for what you have rather than pressing for what you want. I will assure you, what you’ll learn from the MarriageBOOST will positively influence every part of your life. Deeper friendships, happier parenting, and a more fulfilling primary relationship. HOWEVER, sign up only if you are willing to show up and grow.

I’m an average guy with an above-average hunger for better. I went to SFA University in Texas, I’ve owned and managed my own businesses almost my entire adult life. I have failed at past relationships and have suffered a business crash. They have been my teachers. My formal education is not in human behavior, but I honestly consider that a benefit. My non-schooling has helped me think outside the box and in doing so create constructive tools and techniques to help countless people find their joy and purpose.

I fully understand. The prospect of sharing on a Zoom call can sound disconcerting. In two second flat your concerns will begin to dissipate.  I’m a down-home guy with compassion and a gift for making folks feel at home. You’ll learn quickly how much I care.

No deep dives here! Quite the opposite. We’ve discovered how problems typically dissipate by NOT hammering on them. We’ll get busy feeding and growing what works and what connects. My process is quite enjoyable. Heck, we’ll be like old friends when we’re done. I might even be on your Christmas list!

I’m the first to admit that I used to blame my partner for most of the problems or issues in the relationship. I eventually learned how blame only exacerbates the issue while keeping the relationship stuck. You will each learn to remove blame from the equation and experience the power of owning what’s yours. In doing so you’ll set the stage for forgiveness, reconciliation, growth, and revival.

To be clear, this is not therapy.  You’ll find my style to be easy and delightful. Like fuzzy slippers. While therapy “hammers” problems and issues. my style focuses on what Connects rather than what Divides. You’ll watch “issues” evaporate with this approach.

Before we start the first session we will agree on what times best fit everyone involved, whether it be morning, noon, or night. Gosh, that was an easy question! Throw me a hard ball next time!

We do what fits your circumstance best. We find there are times when meeting as a couple is best, and times when meeting individually is best. This program is designed to custom fit your relationship.

It’s a piece ‘o cake! Easy breezy. We meet via Zoom. From your end you can access the Zoom session from your phone, laptop, pad, or computer. You’ll need to have a free Zoom account downloaded to your device. Ask Rob for further instructions if needed.

The 9-wk MarriageBOOST is designed to meet via Zoom once per week. Also Rob will send you inspiring reminder texts between sessions, and you will have access to text or email Rob between sessions.

It's time to Re-invent Your Marriage & Create what You've Always Wanted.

Pick up These Beauties by Rob, Available Now on Amazon!